Now you've ruined the friendship!

If you are looking for likely candidates to bring ruin to any relation, you have to look no further than words. I will always maintain a healthy respect for the power of the spoken word, but goodness knows. There is hardly a word still around you can trust for the sense people try to make when they share the idea.

Its all a bit like way back when it was still fun to attempt your advice. Why I clearly remember a time when I did, convinced that my word had the holy conviction of all that is good in the world. Remember the times that you knew you were right? I guess there come a time in everybody's life to be found wanting when it matter the most.

The funny thing is, were it not for hurt or shame or guilt or fear the odds are better than not you are right. If a common understanding exist and you share your conviction in honest and trust, the chance you are wrong will be slimmer to none. Unless of course, there is always the odd chance that maybe they thought...

Maybe you should have thought...

Bah humbug I say! It was thinking that started this mess in the first place. By thinking to choose what the words we could use we start loosing the value of what we would say. The harder we try to make sure what we say mean the same what we think, the less we do.

Ok, so perhaps it is not really the words do the damage at all, but I think you know what I mean? Its over

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" If a common understanding exist and you share your conviction in honest and trust, the chance you are wrong will be slimmer to none."

NEVER UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF STUPID PEOPLE IN LARGE NUMBERS... (and THEIR common understanding)

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